To be succinct and private… My incubator worked me for weeks to build rapport and trust with me in my younger days, to get me to tell her a something that she would ultimately, and immediately use and weaponize against me and others.
This wasnt the first time I tried to have a relationship with her, but it did finally open my eyes and become the last. In the many many decades since, I’ve not so much as acknowledge her existence when crossing paths.
Saying they are great parents as long as you have a lot of distance emotionally, and geologically, so they can exercise no control over you makes it sound like maaaybe they aint so great parents.
yeah that is why I did not use the word great. not all that bad is not so great usually. like that pizza was not all that bad.