• SalamiDommie@lemmus.org
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    2
    arrow-down
    3
    ·
    23 days ago

    A few hurt feelings are no big deal. “Oh I’ve hurt people” unless you own up to some egregious offense you are probably over estimating your ability to impact the world.

    The details you are leaving out is the groups of people who do the majority of the abuse. It isn’t “cis men” it is people with a certain entitlement. Usually with power or cultural backgrounds unfamiliar with feminism. Let alone modern feminism.

    • bss03@infosec.pub
      cake
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      2
      ·
      22 days ago

      own up to some egregious offense

      Well, I’m not coping to it here, but I’d say it is worse than “hurt feelings”.

      you are probably over estimating your ability to impact the world

      Definitely this, too. Thinking I’m more impactful than I am is a source of some of my own suffering.

      • SalamiDommie@lemmus.org
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        1
        arrow-down
        2
        ·
        22 days ago

        C’mon fam. I thought we were having fun trolling. Don’t make this serious. We’re all the source of our own suffering. Yada-yada existential crybaby crap.

        I hope all your basic needs and family are met.