• ruuster13@lemmy.zip
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    3 months ago

    Women can self-loathe too. The mistake some men make is thinking they’re all the same.

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    3 months ago

    This sounds pretty typical to me.

    They like each others looks, and start talking a bit. She realizes just how many red flags anon is raising, and starts to backpedal.

    Fuck women impossible to understand amirite.

    Edit: nothing is black and white, especially when it come to people. I was just pointing out one of the likely scenario that hadn’t been pointed out when I posted.

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      3 months ago

      I don’t really think it’s that simple.

      I think it’s about that weird thing people (not women) do that makes them attracted to strangers but not friends. I find it mentioned everywhere, both online and offline.

      I think that’s what anon is experiencing too.

      I really don’t understand why people just lose all attraction as soon as mysteriousness is no longer a factor. And I’ve seen it happen with my own damn eyes, to me AND others.

      I don’t get it.

      It’s as if as soon as I become readily available to anyone, I suddenly become much more worthless and disposable too… Suddenly every other aspect of theif life takes priority and I’m number last. I guess because other things are only available conditionally whereas I’m pretty much always available? Idk.

      Also if I’m not interested in someone, that someone always wants to interact. It’s as if life constantly works to spite me.

      Edit: I’m so glad I didn’t get downvoted to oblivion…I feel so validated. Thanks y’all…

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      3 months ago

      Thats not a problem with “liking someone back.” I think the post would have read along the lines of " i hate when someone isn’t who they seem to be" in your scenario.

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        3 months ago

        Perhaps, that’s a good point. It is a green text though, and my bet is that the pic is unrelated.