I left Reddit to get away from that, but unfortunately there still seem to be a fair number of users here that also are convinced men are the real underclass, victimized by everything.

I think I mostly run into it on meme communities. Is that just the destiny of all meme communities? To be overtaken by MRAs? It sucks because I genuinely like memes, but I don’t like randomly being smacked in the face by misogyny all the time. Any other communities I should avoid?

Any insight or tips appreciated 🥰

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    I will join the chorus asking for examples of what you are talking about. Any actually misogynistic content I see is typically massively downvoted.

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      I’m going to be honest, I’m a little perplexed by the demands for evidence. I didn’t really ask to debate wether or not my experiences are real, I asked for some advice. The typical thing to do if you’re unfamiliar with the topic at hand and therefore can’t offer any advice when asked would be to not offer any. I don’t know why people are treating it like a challenge and it’s my job to convince you, but I have some guesses, like, for example, that a lot of you aren’t ready to accept criticism of something you don’t like, or that some of you have some internal work to do that you’re not ready for.

      Other commentors here know exactly what I’m talking about without demanding proof. It’s not just me. I’m sorry if I misjudged you and you’re actually just very interested in learning more about me, but you don’t come off like that at all. You come off like you’re prepared to dismiss any examples I tried to show you anyway.

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      On the plus side a lot of people are going to block OP for this post and that would prevent them from stumbling over the rape cartoon community they moderate.

      I didn’t think shit like that was allowed here, and I definitely don’t want it popping up on /all

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        No, seriously, block me if you find any kind of pornography triggering, I highly encourage it. I don’t want anyone who is uncomfortable with it to run across my work and I don’t really want to deal with kink-negativity, either.

        That said, slut-shaming or kink-shaming me won’t invalidate my point, which is really what most of you are trying to do with the ad hominems.

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      OP self identifies as degenerate, is offended other degenerates exist. because you know, be my flavor of degenerate, not that flavor.

      this is peak cinema. we can only have one underclass, and it’s MINE.

      • EmilieEasie@fedinsfw.appOP
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        I’m not really sure what you mean. You think it’s somehow hypocritical to like porn and dislike running into “women use makeup to LIE TO MEN” memes every day? I’m afraid I don’t see the contradiction. It kinda seems like you just have a problem with women who express sexuality and think we should accept poor treatment.