• velma@sh.itjust.works
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      2 months ago

      I’m sure there will be well-balanced and nuanced discussion from the men of Lemmy on choice feminism and women’s oppression! I’m sure of it! /s

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        But it is a nuanced issue that requires consideration of multiple truths and sometimes contradicting world views.

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          Yes, something that the men of Lemmy are known for when it comes to discussing these types of issues. Notorious even.

          Is the /s not a well known indicator of sarcasm?

  • Evilsandwichman [none/use name]@hexbear.net
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    “Who thinks we should go to war with muslim countries to protect their women?”

    Hands raised

    “Who thinks we should safeguard muslim women in our own country?”

    Crickets


    “Who thinks we should go to war with muslim countries to protect their women?”

    Hands raised

    “Who thinks we should go to war with Israel to protect muslim women?”

    Crickets


    “Who thinks we should go to war with muslim countries to protect their women?”

    Hands raised

    “Who thinks we should end sanctions so muslim women and their children don’t starve to death?”

    Crickets

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    A Turkish acquaintance of mine from a long time ago introduced me to the idea of reform Islam. I didn’t know that it existed, but she was a practitioner. She didn’t wear a hijab, she swore when she felt like it, and she wore shorts when it was hot outside. Her prayers were usually sitting quietly and humming to herself when her phone alarm went off. Whenever we did an art project, she’d do this big long prayer to dedicate it.

    Nice girl. Hope she’s doing okay.

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      Idk how it’s so difficult for westerners to understand that not all Muslims who consider themselves practicing Muslims observe all parts of the faith. There’s so many Catholics who disregard lent, hardly anybody listens to the dietary restrictions, there’s almost none who acknowledge Jesus’ teachings on wealth. Do all Catholics choose not to use condoms? Do all of them have the same opinion on abortion?

      But I do realize it’s part of looking at the out-group as a monolith at best and a hive mind at worst.

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    What a rabbithole to go down.

    I agree no one should have the right tell someone else what to wear, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t a tool of oppression in other cultures

    • mathemachristian[he]@lemmy.mlOP
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      You have no idea about other cultural norms and attires. Is the western man being oppressed when he has to wear a tie and suit to the office in order to keep his job? Do we free him from this oppression by ostracizing him or making it illegal for wearing a tie?