• chuckleslord@lemmy.world
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    30 days ago

    Yes, but also emotional manipulation has a much lower likelihood of putting you in the hospital. Not zero, but much lower.

    Social services effectively cares about getting kids to adulthood. Physical violence is the bigger obstacle to achieving that goal.

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      30 days ago

      Depends on the country maybe?

      Children have the right to care, security, and a good upbringing. Children shall be treated with respect for their person and individuality and shall not be subjected to corporal punishment or other abusive treatment

      is the law of parenting in Sweden

      In all matters concerning children, the child’s best interests must be the primary consideration. When assessing the child’s best interests, the child’s views must be taken into account. If a decision or other measure concerns care or treatment for a child, the child’s best interests must be the deciding factor

      regarding what social services are bound by law to do

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          29 days ago

          Yes, it’s insane. I know it’s legal to hit your children i other parts of Europe as well, like France. Just not “too much or too hard” because that would be assault…

          Sweden abolished corporal punishment in schools 1958 and at home 1979(!)

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            29 days ago

            i was beat regularly with belt and hangers. They did it while I was kneeling on concrete so every hit dug into it my knees. My knees are still scared from it. I got hit so often by so many ppl that it lost effect so they called me “iron butt” in the old language. I was more annoyed by waiting for it be over than the pain itself.

            Crazy part is I actually had it good. My class mates had it way worse. Apparently they got hit with small whips and one with an extension cord if I over heard correctly.

            I think about it all the time if the pain did anything to correct my behavior. I dont really think it did. It did however teach me that pain is temporary.