• lastlybutfirstly@lemmy.world
    1·
    3 days ago

    Defending yourself against what, exactly?

    This:

    If I believed you capable of long term romantic relationships, I’d pity your spouse.

    I told you that you and everyone here is physically attractive and you told me this. Damn.

    now you’re gonna tell me that all hetero women need to be constantly dicked down or they leave? Where is that coming from?

    It comes from reality. This reminds me of the Helen Kane song “He’s so unusual”. Some day it’ll click and you’ll turn around and look at your life and go “Oh shit! There were all these women who were in love with me and I had no idea. In hindsight, I realize I was kind of cruel to them, their feelings, and their desires.”

    You kids are overthinking it here. Does she make your dick hard? Does she want to suck it? If so, congratulations, you’ve found love! Go for it. Don’t kill it with your intellect.

    • PeriodicallyPedantic@lemmy.ca
      1·
      14 hours ago

      Literally you said that nobody is attracted to intellect.
      People disagreed with you, based on their own personal attraction
      You lost your mind and called everyone liars and asserted that you know the majority of this sample better than they know themselves.

      And your justification is because some song expresses that women are shallow? That’s the only evidence that you provided that this “comes from reality”, and you’re putting it up against everyone in this threads first hand experience.

      This strongly reads like you just discovered you’re shallow, but that doesn’t match your self image, and rather than reflecting on it and adjusting your self image, you’re unable to sit with the discomfort so you project shallowness onto everyone else so that you can feel like it’s normal instead of a flaw.