I mean you don’t. If anon were to go to the psychologist, the psychologist would tell him that he has significant mental issues. A disability if you will. That is a fact.
Why you preach this pulling yourself up the bootstraps mentality is beyond me. Completely antithetical to what the vast majority of disabled people need to hear.
I am not even an ML. So you can actually go fuck yourself with this dishonest attempt at a character assassination. “I’m glad my parents didn’t give a shit about me.” is still an insane thing to say.