• GarboDog@lemmy.world
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        3 months ago

        That’s very true, we never believed in Christmas/religion but never spoiled/ruined it for others, it was their enjoyment.

        Granted when we have a kid, we don’t think we’ll be telling them that “Santa is just a famous character of Christmas, and some people have fun believing he’s real, so don’t ruin their fun either” or something like that. Still have plenty of years to think of how to word it better lol :P

        • the_riviera_kid@lemmy.world
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          1 month ago

          I just told my kid the truth the first time it came up. It wasn’t and never has been an issue. They dgaf if an invisible pink unicorn brought those presents.

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          3 months ago

          Honestly, I think i will “lie” about Santa. Simply because it doesn’t really matter and it is fun for them.

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            3 months ago

            Yeah, its pretty obvious peoppe are lying anout Santa once you realize the North Pole has no land.

            Santa clearly is from the South Pole.

            Pretty genius actually, getting people to look for him on the opposite side of the planet.

          • mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works
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            3 months ago

            Something to consider: do you want to normalize lying to your kid? I realize that’s an antagonistic way to phrase it, but that’s pretty much what’s happening

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              3 months ago

              This is such a boring thing that people say all the time.

              Lying is normal. You should be lying. Lying isn’t morally wrong if it is not done for morally wrong reasons. My child should be lying to me. I should be lying to my child.

              And my children will understand the difference between lying to e.g. prevent a surprise to be ruined and lying to avoid facing consequences.

              It is such a black and white thinking. It is so boring too. I will teach my children violence because 1 day, they might need it too.

              And sidenote: e.g. telling your child that they can “trust” the security or the police if they get lost in a large crowd, is a lie. But one that is true enough that the child is safer with them than alone in a crowd. Telling your child that e.g. a electrical signal is travelling from the tv station through a wire to your tv, would be a lie if there is some fiber cables somewhere between them, or a satellite connection. Yes, simplifications are lying. We will lie anyway to enable them to navigate the far too complex world and slowly learn about the real underlying complexities.

              And obviously, there is a difference between making them write letters to Santa and telling them Santa brings gifts for Christmas.

                • Tartas1995@discuss.tchncs.de
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                  3 months ago

                  What argument? You parroted an question. That you think you made an argument, highlights that you parroted the question. Even if you want to understand the question as an argument, a basic inspection of the implied premise that lying is bad, is enough to dismiss the argument as lazy and surface-level.

                  If you don’t like it when people call your output boring, say something worthwhile.