When I was in my early 20s Tinder/Hinge were absolutely popping off. I met with a girl for dinner. We talked about if it went well we would go back to my place and hook up. It did and we ended up in my bed. She started touching me and said “oooooo so big”. I immediately started laughing which made her laugh. I’m fine, but I do not have a big dick, she and I both knew that. We laughed about it more and she said she was just trying to be nice. Ended up being one of the more funny sexual encounters I had.
Then you try to reset but any time you try to say the line, someone laughs and gets everyone else going. Even if 9/10 people manage to hold it together, that 10th person giggling sets everyone else off. And then one of the guys might lose his boner and you need to do some more foreplay to get everyone going again to reset. Can turn what should have been just a quick 2h session into a multi-day experience.
Not that I’m complaining or anything.
Yeah it really depends on who it’s with. Some people can salvage the scene, others can’t. With my Domme she’s usually pretty good at it by just hitting me more lol, though sometimes it does just collapse into cuddles.