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Oh man, I am so sorry I told everyone here that they’re physically attractive. Okay. You win. I’m insane. You’re right. You’re all ugly monsters who will never find love.
You’re not even trying to understand why everyone disagrees with you. In fact, you’re refusing to even acknowledge that you could be mistaken in your premise that people aren’t attracted to intelligence, and instead lash out.
That is why you need therapy.
That’s fine. They’re not even trying to understand what I was saying.
Are you being serious? Or just attacking me like the other person? Because I’m pretty sure if I go to a therapist and I show them these exchanges, they’re not going to say that I’m the one who needs therapy.
No, they will.
You unilaterally claimed that nobody is attracted to intelligence, that everyone is just pretending and they’re really only attracted to physical appearance. Even as hyperbole, that is a wildly unhealthy thing to believe, and you absolutely called yourself out.
No they won’t.
What’s wildly unhealthy is loving the person you’re fucking in the same way you love your mother and sister and grandma. I’m not the one calling myself out.
That’s the position you’re going to double down on, in the face of everyone correcting you? No, the therapist won’t think you’re crazy at all.
You think you’ve found a gotcha, but you’re still just outing yourself. You think that a romantic relationship involves a single type of attraction, and that a single type of attraction affects sexual arousal? If I believed you capable of long term romantic relationships, I’d pity your spouse.
This is a strawman.
The Fediverse isn’t everyone. Everyone on the Internet is not even remotely normal and the Fediverse is pure distilled weird from the weirdest people on Earth. Yeah, I’m sticking to my guns.
You’re the one going for the gotchas and the dunks. I’m just defending myself. You know I don’t need therapy. You’re just insulting me.
I pity the hetero cis male who truly believes that his wife always loved him for his intelligence when she dumps him because his doctor can’t prescribe him Viagra and Cialis. Nobody’s hiding shit. We all know the truth. There’s a good reason why these meds are important and covered by insurance. Impotence destroys relationships and whole families.
Man, this thread perfectly illustrates why women despise “intelligence”. You try to tell an intelligent cis hetero man it’s 10pm and he tells you you’re a fucking moron who needs therapy because ackchyually it’s 10am in Banda Aceh and 6pm in London and 2100 hours in Milan. Nobody wants to be around that much less have it jizz in them.
Not a straw man. All the people here are telling you that this is the way they feel, and you’re telling them that they’re wrong and they don’t actually know how they feel.
I didn’t say it was everyone. I said in the face of everyone correcting you.
Defending yourself against what, exactly? This all started because you told people how they feel and they said they feel different and you refused to accept that.
Dude what the hell is that rant? You’re telling me you don’t have issues to work out? You just got done telling me about how the fediverse isn’t everyone and now you’re gonna tell me that all hetero women need to be constantly dicked down or they leave? Where is that coming from?
This:
I told you that you and everyone here is physically attractive and you told me this. Damn.
It comes from reality. This reminds me of the Helen Kane song “He’s so unusual”. Some day it’ll click and you’ll turn around and look at your life and go “Oh shit! There were all these women who were in love with me and I had no idea. In hindsight, I realize I was kind of cruel to them, their feelings, and their desires.”
You kids are overthinking it here. Does she make your dick hard? Does she want to suck it? If so, congratulations, you’ve found love! Go for it. Don’t kill it with your intellect.