• TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
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    I’m more a French Toast kinda guy.

    f the waffle people. bastards, all of them.

    pancake folk, I don’t know, just don’t talk to me and we’re good.

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    There’s a bakery close to where I live that I used to get stuff from regularly. One of the things I liked had a really cringeworthy pun as a name, though, so I just said something along the lines of “the one with ham and eggs”. I regularly got asked “so one [cringeworthy pun]?” At some point I said, “yes, the one with the cringeworthy name”. The employee (who seemed to be a more senior employee) said I should use the product names because it would apparently confuse the apprentices otherwise. When I said that it’s just too cringeworthy she started saying things like “no one else will notice that it’s cringeworthy” and going in the direction of “come on, you can do it”. Well, I don’t go there anymore.

    EDIT: since a number of people are commenting on my use of the word “cringeworthy”: for one there are a number of places where it’s fairly normal to use that word (and I mean IRL), and for another this happened in a different language.

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      15 hours ago

      I would likely do the same to be honest, Customer experience is huge when it comes to stuff like that. I don’t care what your corporate overlords or your management wants. If what your management wants leads to me feeling uncomfortable spending my money there, I’m not going to spend my money there.

      In my opinion, I think it’s more than fair to be able to describe what you’re looking for or point your finger at a menu item and have that be sufficient.

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        Right? Having the employee repeat it back in their internal words is fine and tells the customer they’ve been heard correctly, but you don’t need to make then customer jump through hoops.

        Coffee shop I go to used to do the Italian thing. Then they switched to small/medium/large. They finally settled on just listing the volume on the menu.
        The entire time you could just say any of them and they knew what you meant.
        If they have no idea what you meant they can ask for clarification. They even have the cups right next to the register they can hold up and confirm.

        Turns out not pissing people off is often as easy as “asking for clarification if needed”. Also offering free espresso occasionally helps.

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          Oh yeah, firm agree, like the employee should definitely be able to clarify that they understood what you wanted properly, but it shouldn’t require the customer having to use whatever internal lingo that the establishment decided they wanted to call a bagel or, in your case what they wanted to call sizes of the beverage. I’ve actually had a similar issue with Starbucks because our somewhat local one did that and I haven’t gone back since.

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      UK here, I’d say cringeworthy is a pretty normal word. Or at least it was before kids dropped the second half of the word.

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      That’s an incredibly dumb reason to not go to a nice bakery. People take themselves way too seriously. Embrace the cringe. Be whimsical and silly. Life’s too short to go through it with a stick up the ass.

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        Some of us have too much trauma for being made fun of as children for doing cringe worthy shit. It’s not fun and whimsical for us to be forced into it as adults. It literally hurts to expose ourselves to that again.

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          Yea, I was too. I grew up autistic in the rural US South. I know all about getting made fun of for being “cringe”.

          The thing is though, holding onto that trauma and letting it dictate your life instead of learning to cope with it and move on is incredibly unhealthy.

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        Some people don’t mind cringeworthy things. For me, saying something that cringeworthy can hurt inside. Also, I just really don’t like being coerced to say something in a certain way just to match some marketing shtick. The question shouldn’t be “why don’t you want to do it”, but “why do you feel the need to compel me to use a term you made up”.

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        The great thing is, people can choose to be silly or people can choose to be serious. Let the person go find a bakery that works for them.

        Edit: that being said, I don’t personally get why you can’t just say a silly product name unless it’s like really vulgar.

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        They generally don’t use the full word, but I have 1,000% heard people shorten it to cringe. It’s mostly people that are millennial or gen Z though.

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        Using cringeworthy off of the internet is itself a bit cringeworthy. But I notice younger generations are no longer making such distinctions. So maybe this is becoming the norm. Older generations would not have done this. Except for really old generations, like boomers, who will occasionally throw in an Internet slang they picked up recently. Again young gen x and older millenials had this one figured out, just like we figured out technology on our own. Which is probably related, as we wouldn’t use those terms offline since we knew other generations wouldn’t understand. Now that all generations access the internet all the time, on the mainstream monopoly services, that distinction is no longer there.

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          Cringeworthy isn’t Internet slang. It’s been around for decades. It’s like saying “humongous” is Internet slang.

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      23 hours ago

      I always say them, in an obnoxiously over the top advertisy voice. I guess some people are just different 🤷🏼‍♂️

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      My first job was at friendlys, and in case you still miss them sometimes, a fribble is just a regular milkshake made with soft serve (so just soft serve, syrup, and milk).

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      When I was a kid we had to stop eating at Friendly’s cause our server was gay, I mean it’s not like he told us this but my mom had an inkling. I want a cone head :(

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      For those of us not familiar with the region you’re from: what’s Friendly’s and what’s a “Fribble”?

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        It’s a thick milkshake, Friendly’s is a chain of sit down restaurants, they serve food but most people know them for their ice cream.

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        In my family, “dribble” was an oft-used cutesy synonym for “drool”. It reminds me of babies with food and saliva oozing down their chin. That wasn’t explicitly my resistance to saying “Fribble” though; it just felt awkard and childish. We didn’t have “cringey” as an adjective then - but in retrospect, cringey is how it felt.

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    Funny meme and all but if a restaurant decides to do this and refuses to listen to anything but the ridiculous name for the food, then I won’t be eating there. You know what I want, either give it to me or we’re done here. There’s plenty of other restaurants and this one isn’t going to miss my $10 today.

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    Say the name in a weird tone - my pick would probably be chuuni or heavily implied subtext - and make THEM embarrassed instead

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    If I pointed out an item on a menu and someone asked to read a ridiculous name or loud I’d walk right out. Here in Germany I can’t imagine anything like that ever happening. Don’t know about the US, of course, but even there that seems far-fetched.

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      For real? German bakeries do this all the time. It’s a fucking Kürbiskernbrötchen, why do they all feel like they have to invent their own bullshit influencer name for it? Chances are 9 out of 10 get them from the same factory even.

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      Some German bakeries have excessively stupid names for their products too, though. I always refuse to say the name but point to the product in question. The usual answer is “Oh, you want one of the [silly-gibberish-name-of-an-overpriced-thing-that-tastes-like-sawdust-anyways]” - I nod, and that’s a successful transaction done.

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      Ohhhh so that’s why German people learn English, so they don’t have to say the ridiculous German words out loud!

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      But saying a cringe product name is super easy, barely an inconvenience.

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      Love Ryan george. Sometimes I even watch his ads because they are funny lol

      I’m a disembodied head so you can trust me. You can trust me