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Cake day: February 23rd, 2024

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  • sometimes it just slips in man.

    and you were like ‘oh hmm, that was not really a mistake but i’m not sure i really enjoyed it, but it was easier than like saying no and upsetting the person and we had a nice cuddle after’

    sexuality has nothing to do with this type of encounter. usually it’s just a momentary thing because you’re drunk or in a mood.

    this is basically all my hook ups in college. friend hang out, have sex, never acknowledge it and go back to being unattracted friends again.















  • the average student debt is like 30K.

    i had a friend who graduated in 2007 with 100K in debt… it was also possible to do that 20 years ago… if you were really dumb. She was really dumb. She had that debt load from a lower-cost public school… she just make really bad financial choices… and then went ot graduate school for 6 years so the debt wasn’t’ getting paid back… and then got a low-wage job afterward… yeah


  • yeah, i had some friends who lived at home for a couple of years after college… all they did was complaint relentless about their parents. but they also just refused to move out because they didn’t want to pay rent or have roommates and would tell me I was a chump for paying rent and have roommates, and then I’d say how not living with your parents is the best. and they’d get so mad at me and not talk to me for a couple of weeks.

    still, some people actually get along with their parents are are friendly with them and like being around them. blessed bastards, they are.



  • does he legit have that debt? or are you just generalizing? most people don’t have 100K of debt… some people do and those folks aren’t smart people and their bad choice making tends to compound their situation over time. I have known folks with the 100K of debt… and trust me those people knew what they were doing, they just refused to pay down their debt…

    I had 35K of debt, and paid $15K of it off in two years on a 30K job, because I made it a priority and I didn’t want to be poor forever.

    A lot of bad parents enable their children’s bad choices and they have to live with the consequences. His parents taught him to be entitled and rude probably because they did not practice discipline or punishment for poor actions. But you’re right it’s none of your business really. You can’t fix anyone else’s bad choices. It’s not his generation, it’s just him and how he was raised.