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Typically for a man at least, if you aren’t active looking, you’re never going to find anyone. Feeling good about yourself isn’t going to attract people… being attractive and approaching them is really what you have to do.
Typically yea but sometimes you get lucky and can have a woman ask you out. Usually only happens when they notice other women are interested in you and really don’t wanna miss their shot. In my experience, when you’re happy, kind and not looking, they’ll find you, and fast
Cool my experience has been the oppsite. The more miserable I was the more they were into me, the happier I was, the more they found me unattractive.
I did awesome with women when I was depressed, drinking a lot, and broke as shit. I had multiple women chasing me all the time and confessing their love for me.
Now that I am in much better place, I’m basically invisible except to these really high-strung business women I want nothing to do with because their entire life is complaining about how broke they are even though they are wealthy, who basically cry themselves into a bottle of wine every night because they can’t find a billionaire to date them and think anyone making less than 300K a year is living in poverty.
I feel for your prospects my friend, they don’t sound ideal